Love its same for all

Undisputed winner of all the feelings that we experience daily is the feeling of love. Every adjective or poetic words for that feeling seems to be less as it changes so much inside us when we are in love. There is no true love, false love or unconditional love because love is love, you can’t add a word to make it more worthy. Love demands no change as it accepts dearly ones as they are because you see beauty in all imprecations they have.
When you feel jealous, attached, full of expectations, possessive, demanding and give no space to your loved ones, it will gradually disappears as it cannot be in the place where there is no trust. Every living creature in this world who has a heart has a soul and are capable of loving irrespective of what species, religion, race, country, color, physical demography you belong to as there is invisible comics string which connects people in love.
This to all close minded people who judge others by their own experiences and perception about what is morally right and wrong as they have read somewhere or heard something which was probably preached to them as words of God. “You don’t know a Shit about love so stop judging!!”
You have no right to judge when you see two men in love or women holding each other’s hand
You have no right to judge an older women falling in love with younger men or young women falling in love with older men
You have no right to judge a single mother falling in love with an unmarried men or a divorce guy falling in love with a beautiful unmarried girl
You have no right to judge when an old lady in her 70s walks aisle again as she was fortunate to fall in love at her age
You have no right to judge cross country lovers who in spite of distance feel connected and meet once in a year
You have no right to judge a solider falling in love with a lady from an enemy land as love sees no boundary and blossoms on war zone
You have no right to judge someone who decides to never marry and dedicate life to love and care for under privileged
You have no right to judge a guy marrying a girl who is counting her last days as there is no perfect time for love
You have no right to judge people who have left their city life to live in woods and close to nature
You have no right to judge a transsexual who adopts a baby to give all the love and care.
You have no right to judge an atheist who believes karma as his soul duty and purpose of life
You have no right to judge a guy and girl who dares to fall in love by breaking all the barrier of religion, race and color
You have no right to judge when a disabled girl falls in love with a perfectly normal guy and expects to start her own family
You have no right to judge when a person leaves all the human connection to live between wild animals
In the end it’s just once we live and so don’t waste you precious time judging others and their ways of affection as “Love its same for all”




Eternal Blending..

When yellowness of hot sun blends with blueness of cool sky it makes greenery of nature more refreshing
When sound of thunder blend with greyness of sky it makes smell of wet brown mud more soothing
When red lava of raging hot volcano blends with smooth flowing waves of ocean it forces steam to dance along rhythm of rising wind to be a part of dense dark clouds
When sound of a water fall blends with singing of birds it expresses swaying of trees like they are dancing on the melody of nature
When illusion of sun blending with moon emerges in the sky as eclipse it creates a golden ring as if universe has crowned our earth
When falling autumn leaves blends with dried up land detaching itself from weathering tree and passing its beauty to the land indicates beauty never dies it just changes form
When you blend with a stranger and it feels like one of your own remember your souls had met each other in past through the journey of time and space.
When my poems blends with your feelings it connect us through an invisible string which will get stronger with your every heartbeat


Break free..

There are times when you are drained
Dark room is suddenly your best friend
Your actions doesn’t necessary match your goals in life
Nor your expression matches with what’s going on inside
Still you wake up every day to do what you are best at
To pretend that everything is absolutely alright
Taking a step back is not an option any more
Rushing forward recklessly is impossible as your fear roar
Time flies and you see yourself in the mirror with wrinkly eyes
Listening to that little voice from inside, screaming the same old thing
To stop pretending and for once live life the way you want
Be brave and fight the fears that always haunt
Decision may be hurtful for people whom you love
As they are glued by expectation and attachment you always perform
You are like a beautiful Cockatoo in a cage, loved and cared by its owner
Visually stunning and approachable to all who gaze
But denied its basic purpose to fly and to be free
So when you choose break the cage and live life your way
There may be displeasures and heartbreaks on your pathway
But look up in the sky and see what you have missed
It’s time for you to fly and embrace the beauty that exists
And there will be a time when your loved ones will realize
You are even more beautiful when you fly


Heartfelt anxiety…

Tell me the secret behind beauty in your glimpse
I wonder how it will be in your magical dreams
Do I stand a chance to be a part of it?
Or Am I the only dream that seems to exists
I wonder does my name crosses your mind
Or is the only thing you think every single time
I wonder does your heart read my signals when we talk
As it seems your eyes are too busy gazing at me
To my knowledge I am not gifted with hypnotic power
Nor my words spellbound your senses
But its appears you are daydreaming of something unique
Which I fail to figure out, that I confess
You always look around while speaking with me
And force me to look into your eyes as I speak
You ask me what I will have at a fancy restaurant
And switch dishes to have mine as it arrives
We go on our casual window shopping every weekend
And I see you halt at every jewelry shop end to end
As if you are in pursuit of something worthy
And I feel emptiness on your finger as you hold my hand
I wonder is all this just my crazy imagination
Or a sign I have been misreading while making assumptions
I am very sure there will never be a clear indication
It’s time for me to lay down all my loving intentions
And for heaven sake let’s stop this hide and seek
As I am crystal clear you are the one my heart miss



As it’s rightly said “This too shall pass” and “Nothing is permanent” are great motivational quotes. We are still a vulnerable beings when it comes to emotional break down or heartache or loosing someone we love. This quotes seems to be easier said than done when it comes to practical implementation of those things, most of us frequently fail. As emotional beings we are dependent on our attachment to people, animals and things we love and possess. Or most of the time its seems we behave or believe that things and people we love we possess. We are the owners and we expect them to behave in certain way which fulfils our emotional needs of being happy, feeling secured, being loved and cared. So what happens when someone leave you? Or someone ditches you and breaks your heart? or when your loved ones are no more in this world? What happens? Most of us experience 2 things I.e. Grief and Depression. I bet most of us have gone through emotional break downs in past or are going through right now. Undoubtedly it’s the worst time of anyone’s life. To make things worse there are always something like memories, photographs, places, things and songs galling your mind as a constant reminder to mourn. Depression is painful at first but our mind and body gets hooked up to it after sometime. By hooked up I mean addicted. Now you may say, No one likes to be addicted to depression or grieve their whole life. I may disagree, Depression is addictive. Our mind and body cannot feed on something for a long time and it needs change or we become restless but when you are grieving, everything around you slows down. We start living in past and it feels like we are time traveller only difference is it continuously takes us in past. We fear that our connection will be lost with someone who is no more part of our life so we keep thinking about them and miss them a lot thus making our self-more depressed and sad. I am not suggesting to stop grieving but I believe it plays important role for us to move on in life. It’s important to know that grievance without accepting reality makes you more depressed. Memories are there to be cherished and not to be mourn upon, definitely not for long. While grieving we need to continuously remind our self that the person is no more in our life and we need to live life without them. You being stuck in a depressed zone doesn’t mean everyone who is still there in your life will stop, they will not as life goes on. There is a certain pattern to life and most importantly it never stops until our last breath. Getting out of that zone requires constant effort and it’s exhausting. But you need to do it because there are people still in your life that requires the same amount of attention that you once desired for someone you love who is no more with you and if you are not then you are probably being selfish. And mostly important you yourself needs to push and take that first step of moving on. No amount of sad or happy music or anti-depression pills will help you. Only person who can help you to get out of this grievance is yourself. You have a life and there is some reason you are still alive so live it responsibly. Your connection with your loved one whom you have lost shouldn’t be an insecure or sad one but an eternal connection that will inspire you to live life happily. Remember that happiness is not everlasting so is the sadness. You have all rights to grieve for your lose but it’s equally important to accept the fact and move ahead in life. As they say we are all transcendental souls fitted in an impermanent body. Our body dies but are soul remains and then we are just transferred to some other body. So going by the rule of reincarnation, person whom you lost has already starting living life so why are you stuck?
Darshan Joshi