She: When do you know, you like someone?
He: Do you mean love someone?
She: Yes but first it starts with liking, right?
He: No, Don’t we like everyone around us? Imagine if we didn’t, it would be a mess
She: Ok Ok, When do you know, you love someone?
He: (when you hold my hand!! but I can’t tell her that)……. It’s about how you feel, when you are with that person…
She : Feelings !! What kind?
He: A feeling that makes you forget all your problems, insecurities, distrust feelings, fear of future … all that kinda stuffs…Negative Negative kinds
She: But there are many close ones who make me feel that way
He: soooo that means you love them all … 😀
She: No No … I mean not like that…I mean someone who is perfect for me …a guy whom I can be with my entire life …. A happy loving life
He : ohh !! A Guy (Shit!! Now I need to know where I stand) It’s the same feelings but with a twist …
She : Twist ?
He : Always go for A loving life and not a happy loving life ? 1st. don’t base your happiness on others, I know it’s difficult but sooner you learn better for you 2nd. You can’t control him and certainly he can’t control you. It’s like an awesome magnetic attraction but with a bit of space and less attachment..
She: You are not helping!!!!
He : ( It’s me !!! dam it ) OK Ok I will break it down for you
Someone who manages to give you enough confidence that in spite of all your problems, insecurities, failures, distrust feelings, fear of future which will always be there – he will stand by you
Not necessarily will always solve your problems coz that’s your shit and you need to deal with it…. but you know that he will be with you shoulder to shoulder through thick and thin … no matter how bad his situation is …
He: ( Ohh I hate that BUT )
She: There are many guy friends who are close to me and I know they will stand by my side
He: (That is probably coz ……… they have all fallen for you…..Shit !!! competition competition !!!! ) Hmmm , out of those guys whom do you want to be by your side the most ? Someone you pour your heart out and feel empty …..Someone who can console and be straight-up at the same time …..
Someone who respects and reminds you of who you are …..
He: (And someone who takes time to answer all kind of shitty questions and still suggest someone else but not him)….😊😊